How to get laid

Date & Time:  25.7.2026

14:00 – Arrival

14:30 – 20:30 – Journey

21:00 – Departure

Location: Fokus Seminarzentrum, Neubaugasse, 44/2/12, 1070 Wien

Info: This workshop is hosted by Till & Shirka.

Duration: 7 hours

Price:

Supporter Ticket 120€ (plus €2 booking fee)

If you’re in a stable financial flow, please consider choosing this option – your generosity helps us keep the event abundent and accessible for those with less.

Standard Ticket €90,- (plus €2 booking fee)

Fair ticket €50 (available upon request)

We hold a limited number of discounted spots for those who need a little financial breathing room. Write us at play@tillshirka.com to request one.

Cancellation policy:

If you cancel, your payment becomes a voucher (valid until end of 2026), minus a €15 admin fee.  In that case please write us an email to play@tillshirka.com.

Tickets: https://tillshirka.com/intimacy-workshop/how-to-get-laid-july

tilltailorworkshops@gmail.com

This workshop is for you:

If you’re new to sex positivity or want to expand your communication skills around intimate encounters. 

The goal is to provide both knowledge and communication tools, along with a playful experience and a chance to practice. You can always choose how intense or intimate your practice will be.

Please note:

We do not gender-balance the group. You are expected to interact with people of all genders. Of course, mutual consent always applies. But if you can’t imagine giving or receiving touch from someone of the same gender, this workshop is not for you.

Example: receiving or giving a massage while practicing asking for the exact kind of touch you want.

You’re more likely to form connections during the workshop if you don’t set your expectations too high.

 If you’re looking for a specific body type or experience, this might not be the right place for you.

Language: The workshop will be held in English. Some instructions may also be translated into German as needed.

Dress Code:

For the first part: Casual clothing, from comfy to sexy.

For the final part: Feel free to go bold, especially if you want to get laid 😉

For both parts: The most important thing is that you feel comfortable! Bring thick socks or indoor shoes if you tend to get cold feet. Outdoor shoes stay outside.

Snacks:

The workshop is quite long, so we’ll take a break — bring a snack for yourself, and maybe a little extra to share with others. Waterbottles and cups with lid are welcome in the space. We provide tea.

What will happen during this workshop?

This workshop focuses on communication, consent theory & practice, followed by sensual explorations and a guided play-space.

It‘s a great preparation for our Spielwiese-Temple or any other kind of sex-positive events, but also a way to get better at asking what you want, in any kind of dating situation.

It‘s designed for beginners and for anyone who wants to improve their communication around intimate encounters.

In the first part, we will explore different resources and tools related to consent and communication around intimate encounters:

– Topics to discuss on a first date

– How to feel safe at a play party or in a temple setting

– Tools to communicate about turn-ons, boundaries, and sexual health with partners

The second is practical:

The second part is practical: some exercises will be verbal, others will involve touch that may become sensual.

– Practice talking about sexual health or sharing desires

– Hands-on sensual exploration about how you want to receive touch

In the third part, the workshop concludes with a held play-space: a free-flow experience with several stations, inspired by the Wheel of Consent*.

This is a practical exploration of everything covered so far, with the chance to maybe get laid…

So, will I get laid?

The workshop ends with a play-space, and things might get juicy… or not.

To be honest: no one can predict if you’ll find a match or get laid during this workshop.

Do I have to get laid? Do I have to touch anyone?

Practice is a big part of this workshop, but maybe your practice is to listen to your inner voice and say “No”.

Of course, you don’t have to do anything that doesn’t feel right for you.

The goal of this workshop is to provide communication tools and create a safer space for practice and experience.

It’s a (maybe first?) step toward conscious sexuality, clear communication and creating intimacy.

Testimonial:

“How to get laid” was a first in many regards for me. And to be honest, when I arrived and noticed the large number of participants – many of whom men, I was taking a deep breath and reminding myself that I was free to leave at any time and without further explanation to anyone.

I was extremely grateful for the slow pace of the evening. On the one hand, it ensured the safety of the space and made 100% sure that everything that was happening could only do so with mutual consent.

It also encouraged me to practice my “no”.

On the other hand, it made me long for the first moment to finally “get in touch” with someone. And especially for the last part, I was actually happy about the vast choice on the “buffet”… :-D

I liked how judgement-free this space was. Anyone could be there with any type of desire and preference, but at the same time none of it had to be fulfilled. To me this felt very freeing to be part of.

I got exactly what I had hoped for. Thus, I am very happy and satisfied with the outcome of the workshop. I feel it was an important and very positive step on my personal journey, and also a really safe safespace.

On top of it, your input was full of humour, but did nonetheless not lack any depth and empathy.

I was positively suprised by just HOW many boxes this ticked for me.

Thank you very much for all of that!!! – L.W. / Vienna

* Thesecond part of this workshop is inspired by the Wheel of Consent® as developed by Dr. Betty Martin. We are familiar with the Wheel, but we
are not certified and did not study with Betty or the School of Consent. For more information visit
www.schoolofconsent.org.